I am getting married in April (I was going to say "We are getting married in April" but didn't want any of you to think I'd gotten you into something you're not ready for...).
Scott and I both have a large number of very close friends and family.
We chose our reception location and it will only hold 120 people (Yes, it is a separate location from the ceremony, but the same day). I even asked if they actually count the guests and the answer was yes.
Is it remotely tactful to invite some people to the reception and not others? If so, how do I choose?